Why the "Virgin" in fear of physical examination?

17-year-old high school, from small Lingling has encountered intense, especially afraid of medical examination.

Remember when, at the first school girls to the hospital for medical check-ups. She was nervous, so was the doctor diagnosed as "heartbeat too quickly". From then on annual inspection body, she was nervous to death, and a more powerful, so every time we can't cross the border.

She said that somehow saw the doctors were afraid, afraid they used a shady perspective she, so heart involuntarily tap.

Later development to escape into the hospital, escape the physical examination.

Lingling studied very hard work, hope to be able to enter the University. But think also to physical examination, heart trembling nervously. She have asked many students, they check whether the body is tense? students say not nervous. A female classmate to joke, are you afraid to check out is not a Virgin? although each medical examination, the doctor confirmed their really is still a Virgin, Ling-ling or fear of physical examination. But this fear was not able to imagine, she didn't know what to do. Parents helpless, specifically to accompany her psychiatrist.

Expert comments

Girls are afraid of inspection body, the body of a Virgin on naked fear

Fear of exposure of the body, is afraid of contact, this is a Virgin "taboo instinct"

Psychologist Sigmund Freud in the virginity taboo, "one article said:" the Virgin afraid, will involve a contradictory feelings.

"This kind of" contradictory feelings "behave as Virgin on sexual contact and yearning, and fear; the more the more afraid to, the more fear more thought. This contradictory feelings intensification is a danger at all and fear. With regard to the nature of the danger at all and fear, Freud said: "they can't distinguish a spiritual--imagine risk; or real-real danger. "The fact that a Virgin of danger at all, fear, mostly from their own spirit--imagine, this is wishful thinking.

"Virgin taboo" is someone else can't touch her body

Touch is a contact, the watch is also a contact

From a psychological perspective, hands and eyes are quasi "organ", the Virgin is afraid of specific touch or gazing at her naked body.

Psychologists analysis, girls ashamed of Psychology from resistance to sexual development. Physical changes to the mature, they always sick and timid, shy of people on their second sexuality. Virgin over women refused to undress, they always forget the seen nude shock. This is the most afraid of young girls strip for medical reasons.

Neurosis is always subject to strong stimulus to the heart after of strong delusion.

Virgin will be stimulating, but all the paranoia of neurosis is controlled by the delusion, the delusion that the symptoms of torture.

Virgin on the "virginity" infringed a rigorous defense

This is the most profound worries.

This crisis has been married to continue to

Freud said: "through the many happy marriage after the analysis, we found that drive (for marriage) loss of virginity woman to revenge (husband), various motives, in civilized women heart did not disappear.

Now many women at first marriage, to men from beginning to end as ice passion unmoved, and finally divorced; however, once the remarriage, suddenly changed the situation, the gloomy situation extinguished. There is no doubt that the adverse reactions have been combined with the first and the end of the disappeared. ”

It should be noted that a Virgin taboo is a normal show, giving a pure Virgin beauty; but a girl appears overly sensitive to extreme taboo, that is the neurosis.

To overcome this syndrome is to treat your body, on a correct understanding of the Virgin of taboos. Understand, she knows things lost mystery and threatening. Virgin will never fear of physical examination.

(Practice editing: plum and apricot)