Parental divorce, children are happiness?

Parental divorce, children are happiness? Divorce, tend to believe that public opinion can only be harmed with children, in fact, may not be. 26 Yuan Tingting from high school this year experienced at the beginning of her parents ' divorce, remarry and divorce again, when many people with sympathy around the eyes when you look at her, comfort her, but she said the heart--"in fact, in my mind, they divorce for me is free. "Let us into Yuan Tingting's inner world, listen to her voice. "Divorce, I did not feel" "when I was 13 years old. Now a lot of people ask me, your parents divorced did influence on you? I told them that I don't have any feeling. Prior to the divorce of their parents, I was not happy at all, they quarreled, I can't have too many things to take care of at the same time, otherwise, people suffer is me. Expert view: the Internet retrieve report on single parent children of divorced families will find, media reported spontaneously selected a negative point of view, there is a subconscious that, if a disintegration of the family, so that the children in the family will fall into the abyss. Such as if the conventional understanding, many in the disintegration of families on the edge of the "children" continues to maintain the surface integrity of home on the grounds. For children, divorce, divorce is the greatest harm is not necessarily the truth, and is likely to be parents quarrel, fight and process of the cold war. Disguised happy is the most painful "when parents divorce, many uncles, an aunt to do what I thought of the work, grandparents may also discourage parents for me to consider, because they are worried that affect my, couse I was preparing to study high school. Not a big thing, but they brought in front of me. The exam, dad was officially moved out from home, in fact, they already took a divorce certificate, but fear effect I examination, has been living with. Expert view: the divorce of their parents is harmful to children, this is a popular point of view. Therefore, there is general agreement that, should do everything possible to prevent the fact that the divorce. Some parents on the divorce issue is indeed frivolous and irresponsible. But on the whole, "divorce is harmful to children" point of view, is ambiguous, there are great one-sidedness. I help parents divorce "my parents remarry after divorce six months, six months after I they run again with the help of a divorce, because divorce is me to help them to fill out. But it seems to me, if you think to leave each other, can live happy, so why should we strongly bring the two together? Such days are painful. "Expert view: parents ' unhappy marriage, may wish to make a prompt divorce supporters, this sounds a bit deviant, but need to be clear that the divorce does not mean not only the pain began, on the contrary, it may well be a regeneration of opportunity, a chance to grow. They taught me to live "in high school, father mother got divorced, I suddenly feel that their space at this time. Sometimes I feel that we should thank the divorce of their parents, they taught me to live independently, learn to take care of themselves. "Expert view: effects of divorce on children are not always negative, like the suffering will be a wealth. Some children because the parents had to find their own happiness and get more people in love, and some have learned to live independently, with a calm state of mind to face setbacks and difficulties in the future. See May 25, 2010 edition of the family health report of the original "At Middle Age"